Layers and highlights (for a boy with long hair)?

Highlights are usually pulled through a cap. It has small holes in it and the hair is snagged through the hole with a tiny hook.. It should be painless, unless you have a hairdresser that pushes through the cap too hard..The bleach is applied after the hair is all pulled through the holes.. Depending on what type of bleach it can take 10 min to 1/2 an hour.. After it's done you rinse and cut.. I think a shaggy layered cut is best for men.. Like Bon Jovi... Good Luck!